tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070327583782057963.post6918269828857929677..comments2023-09-27T14:36:37.909+01:00Comments on Crippled, Queer, Anglo-European Ranter: Bisexual BluesCriquaerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05674014458662056474noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070327583782057963.post-75387558879769514892014-05-30T23:46:38.302+01:002014-05-30T23:46:38.302+01:00So sorry, I did not get back to you sooner. Thank ...So sorry, I did not get back to you sooner. Thank you so much for your comment. Yes, I have wondered whether there is something sado-masochistic deep within my psyche that wants the rejection. Who knows? I am at the point now I should be content to take up any offers… %)Criquaerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05674014458662056474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070327583782057963.post-28705234842588569362014-04-24T19:54:35.680+01:002014-04-24T19:54:35.680+01:00Interesting post.
It's a weird one and somethi...Interesting post.<br />It's a weird one and something I've encountered and pondered myself.<br />Since most of my sexual relationships have been with those 'non out' bisexuals, it did strike me that there must be some kind of allure. Unfortunately, it's an allure that's not shared by openly gay men, which is a bit of a shitter as it's with those openly gay men as opposed to the non-out bisexual that you stand a better chance of having that (spiritually/emotionally) healthy, loving, committed relationship. <br /> I occasionally use dating sites but since every gay man I've ever encountered treats me like the shit on his shoe, I naturally avoid gay orientated dating sites, favoring those aimed more at the (though not exclusively) straight market to try and snag my dreamboat. Which I guess compounds my problem, since there's probably more bi-curious / non-out bisexuals using the site rather than flaming queers like myself, so the chances of finding a serious relationship rather than finding a one-off fuk buddy are remote. But these days the chances of a meetup (at least on my part) are pretty remote. I get what I can from this situation, a bit of flattery from the attention, mild amusement when I escort them through the cycle of coy questioning, confessionals, masturbatory messages, remorse, repulsion, vitriolic abuse and finally flippant apologies or blocking of contact. <br />Like you, I questioned their moral compass and strength of character. But I confess that I'm still seduced by the somewhat paradoxical illusion of settling down with a nice bisexual man, who will love me for who I am, not what I am. <br /><br /><br />Mr. Lexiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06375466374073657348noreply@blogger.com